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I know because I rattled his cage now and then for a number of years. But here’s the point I want to make: I could go on and on and about how cold this guy was shutting down the way he did. But fact is I did something that provoked his actions.
Matter of fact I did one hundred things that provoked his actions.
amputates I would say, it is almost always an act of self-preservation.
I learned this the hard way, which is probably the best way and here’s the story: Some years ago I had a Scorpio pal; we were friends, not lovers. He shared his knowledge, told me jokes, listened to me, kept me cheered and just in general supported me in many, many ways.
But anyway, he told me and told me and told me that he was suffering, but I just kept coming. This is what I did and eventually he pulled the plug. He wrote me a passionate letter to let me know he had thought long and hard about what he was going to do. He was in pain and he felt he needed to isolate himself so he could work things through. In hindsight I would say I was freakishly greedy and insensitive and in short, this was a friend I deserved to lose.
He said he had been up nights tossing but felt he had no choice but to let me pass… He apologized though there was not one reason why he should have, other than he knew I would feel feel pain due the separation. I have since learned to consciously amputate myself and when I do I always recall the example this guy set.
The act is an act but I would argue the motivation.
This is especially true if you know them to be an above board type. It’s so painful when this happens in my life I don’t ever want to reattach to anyone who has pushed me to the edge where I had to detach.I just don’t trust them which is the same thing that happened with my friend.Because Scorpio doesn’t (generally) explain, it’s easy to call and consider yourself their victim when you’re anything but. People are human and they have their limits and so many people ask to be cut. They won’t stop until they’ve completely done you in and when you finally make a defensive strike, this is their cue to cry injury.